When Life Doesn’t Space Things Out Life rarely gives us time to adjust. Loss arrives, and before it can be named, something else is already asking for us. New responsibility. New need. New weight. There is no clean pause between what was taken and what is required next. Grief overlaps with duty. Love overlaps with exhaustion. And somehow, life keeps moving forward as if this were manageable. Most of us can endure a single hard thing. What we are less prepared for is accumulation—the way challenges stack up faster than the heart can process them. There is no dramatic crisis, no singular breaking point. Just the quiet realization that everything…

Unnoticed Endings Most endings don’t announce themselves. There’s no signal, no pause in the moment that tells you to pay closer attention because this will matter later. Life just keeps moving forward, and something ordinary quietly slips into the past. The last time you step onto a field with teammates who have been part of your life for as long as you can remember—so familiar it never occurs to you that this might be the final time. The last gathering with a group of friends who feel permanent—the kind you can’t imagine not always being there, because they always have been. The last conversation that doesn’t feel like a goodbye…

“Truly with you God is hidden, the God of Israel, the savior.” Isaiah 45:15 There are seasons when prayer feels like speaking into the wind — when words fall heavy and still, and heaven seems to hold its breath. And yet, beneath that silence, something in me knows He is there. Not gone. Not absent. Just hidden. Isaiah calls Him “the hidden God” — not because He withdraws in indifference, but because He conceals Himself in love. Hiddenness is how He saves, how He sanctifies, how He teaches the heart to see what the eyes cannot. He is not far; He is forming us in the quiet. It is the…

I grew up in small-town Wisconsin in the ‘90s, with one foot in the analog world and the other just beginning to step into the digital age. Most of my early memories didn’t include the internet or social media — they were filled with basketball at the YMCA, playing yard games and sports outside, Boy Scouts, sledding in winter, and late-night console gaming with friends. I had a great group of people around me — good friends, supportive family, plenty of wholesome things to do. Life felt full, fun, and grounded. I wasn’t wrestling with big existential questions back then. I didn’t lie awake at night wondering about meaning or…

For years, I devoured articles, podcasts, and books. I wasn’t just curious — I was driven. I read respected thinkers from economics, politics, psychology, and beyond. I wanted to understand how the world worked — to make sense of it all. And over time, I built what felt like a coherent worldview. I could trace arguments clearly. I could anticipate objections. I was confident that I “got it” — that I could see what others missed. But if I’m honest, I wasn’t pursuing truth purely for its own sake. I was chasing certainty — not just to feel grounded, but so I could be right. If I could grasp the…

A Reflection on Gospel Poverty, Sacrifice, and Trust Inspired by Thomas Dubay’s Happy Are You Poor There’s a moment in Happy Are You Poor where Fr. Thomas Dubay doesn’t just challenge our behavior — he questions our entire framework for decision-making. He writes that the single dominating value in American culture is economic — the pursuit of “the good life.” Everything else is subordinate to that goal: family life, religious life, and even education. Most universities, he says, don’t educate for truth or wisdom anymore — they “train for the job market.” And when we make the economy our master value, we tend to evaluate everything — even generosity —…